my problem is, when im at band practice i think my
bass rig is to powerfull for the band.

im running:

*either a Ampeg svt2 non pro @300watts tube or a
mesa/boogie 400+ @400watts tube.

*Ampeg pr cab 600watts, or Ampeg classic cab
500watts

* all my basses are active and have really hot
pickups.

i dont feel that im pushing the tubes hard enough
to get that killer tone, and the only way i think
my rigg sounds good is if its cranked. if i do
crank the amps, then im way to loud for the band.
it almost sounds like im clanking around on the
bass with out amplification but im loud. no tube
growl in the tone.

so my questions are:

* do i have to dole out cash for a lower wattage
tube head? and if so, is there any tube amp
comparable to a svt at lower wattage?

* could i use a lower wattage cab to push the
speakers better so i sound louder at a lower
volume?

* am i just not EQing my amps right?

the volume knob on the mesa is barely on 2, and on
the ampeg is about 3 and my rig is still to loud.

my guitar player plays on a peavey 5150 and mesa
king cab.
thanks for your help